Ten years ago today I lost the most amazing person in my life, my Mom. I know she is in a better place, but for selfish reasons I miss her dearly. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her and wish she was here. I have only wonderful memories of my Mom and want to share some of them...
My Mom was one of the strongest people I know. Now that I am older I am amazed at the strength she had. She worked strenuous hours to provide for six children on her own while dealing with some emotional hardships, and I rarely remember seeing her break down. As a parent myself, I now realize she probably hid her emotions to protect her children. She was completely selfless. She worked unthinkable hours and learned and successfully ran a "man's" business. She had all odds against her and made it all happen for her family.
My Mom was supportive. She had three children involved in soccer and would spend her weekends on the field yelling at the refs. At the time I was often embarrassed of her shouting, and now can hear her voice in my head and laugh at the things she would say. She hardly ever missed a game and took advantage of turning any game that was an hour away into a mini vacation. Some of my best memories were on the field, and I was fortunate enough that they continued all throughout my college career.
My Mom loved laying in bed and snuggling up with her children while we took turns rubbing each others back and heads. I too love to snuggle and now Hailey is always asking to lay in the bed or on the couch and snuggle. Every time she asks I think of my Mom. Hailey has also grown to love to be rubbed all over her body. I wish I had waited to start this with her when she was a little older so that I could be rubbed in return!
I was blessed to have a wonderful childhood. Although we had our struggles, I never felt that I went without and I always felt loved. My Mom was such an example to me. She was an amazing mother and friend. She taught me to never give up and to work for what you want. She believed in her family and always put them first. I watched her grow in the Church and be a support to many other women. My Mom was like no other!! I know she watches over me and I hope she is proud to call me her daughter. I love You Mom and miss you like crazy... I can't wait to be together again.
Happy Halloween!
1 year ago
Thank you for sharing. Aunt Pat was always the coolest :)
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ReplyDeleteYour mom was truly a wonderful person. She would be so proud of you and your beautiful family.
Ruth
I remember this time, though I didn't know you very well. :( After losing my dad, I thought of you often and admired your strength through what you went through. I am glad you have so many happy memories of her. Thank you for sharing something so special and personal to you!
ReplyDeleteI loved your mom too! She was very special to me. She was my Laurel advisor when I first joined the church and I learned so much from her-not to mention laughed a lot with her as well! She is missed. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteJamie, you're making me cry! :) I loved your mom so much. She was the GREATEST! One memory of her that stands out in my mind was one night at Young Womens. We were all piled in "Blueberry" on our way to the Grapevine Mills Mall for a Scavenger Hunt. My "crush" at the time, who I won't mention, walked out of the church. Pat rolled down the window and yelled, "Hey hottie! Need a ride?" I acted like I was embarassed but I totally loved it! She was always so much fun even when she worked a long day and rushed to the church in her Interstate uniform to serve us YW in the ward. I'm sure you miss her so much. I know she would be very proud of you!
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